sad news early in the morning today. a very good friend of mine, who's married to one of my bosses, has given birth to a stillborn baby.
her husband (my boss), called me and said that he'll be taking leave the whole week and stupid me (as always), didnt even notice the sadness in his voice. so yg si buduh ni, dengan suara yg extremely excited went on and ask... sooo??? how laa??? sudah jadi bapa??? with a sigh... and a barely 'listenable' voice, he said "sudah... tapi nasib dia tidak bagus oo Lena" (he calls me Lena bah)... so, double stupid ni, bzbody lagi pi tanya "kenapa????" but actually, automatic saja bah tu... i didnt mean to ask but... tu lah... automatic saja tu mulut. he was so nice, he let me know the whole story...
he said, his wife - my friend - was overdue. she's supposed to deliver on 20th Oct but when the day came, there was still no sign of y'know... sakit2 perut kaa.... nothing at all. the next day, she was bleeding so they went to the hospital. she was immediately admitted but when she was checked, the doctor/nurse said, her cervix is not dilated yet.. and since no pain or whatever, the next day they were asked to go home and come back on the 29th Oct.
i think it was on friday, she noticed that her baby's not moving.. and when they get to the hospital, after being checked and everything, they were told that the baby is gone
OMG!
i just couldnt imagine the heartache and the pain they must be going through right now...
just imagine, they must hv already bought baby clothings, folded the diapers nicely... prepared the cot... those cute little pillows and bolsters and blankets... the baby bottles...
hv to be on pantang but...
and no baby to breastfeed to...
be strong my dearest friend... God will take a very good care of the baby, He will... 
dang! why do things like these always happen to nice ppl...
7 comments:
That's so sad. May God bless the baby's soul and give strength to the parents as well...
I heard the news too...she was our neighbour tu..kalau tidak silap la..Si Audrey bah kan..tidak sangka pula her hubby is ur boss..I just knew about the news on Saturday when her mom rang my mom..:(..sedih oo...diorang patut kasi beranak suda bah tu when bleeding suda even no contraction...Rest in peace baby..
that's so sad. as a mum myself, it sends shivers down my spine when i hear these kind of news. rest in peace dearest baby & may the good lord grant the bereaved parents strength to get through this together.
ishhh, sedih me hear ohh!! sakit my jantung when i read ur post. Rest In Peace little baby!! I'm so so sorry to hear this so very sad news. May The Lord bless baby's parents with strength.
so sad, kan? i think all mommies out there will feel the same way we do...
just imagine bah, already cukup bulan and everything... no complication whatsoever, suddenly... jadi gini pla...
and i still feel guilty for being "too excited" on the fon! hmmphhh... :-(
So sad. Which boss is this?
Come to think of it, macam ramai orang overdue this year.... but most of the time ok lah... no complications.
Very ke lian oooo, imagine lah carrying the baby for nine-months only for the baby to be born a still born....
sedih juga. i dont know what to say. 1st baby lagi. Hope God can give them strength to face all this and try again.
Post a Comment