a few weeks back, one of my friends in friendster posted a bulletin cursing someone for being so s*ndal, stole someone's husband, had an affair until that s*ndal person got knocked-up and had a baby girl who is now a few months old.
then, a few days ago, i stumbled upon an old friend's blog (a different friend ya, not the one i mention above). she wrote about her heartbreak, how her husband cheated on her, about all the pain she felt... and suddenly all the puzzle pieces fall into place. i was like... OMG!!! that s*ndal person stole my friend's husband!!!! Memang jalang sungguh perempuan yg s*ndal itu!!! and the husband is also a pig! Biggest jerk in the whole world!!! i mean, how could he??? how could they do this to her (my friend)??!!! why???? after all she's been through, all her sacrifice, all her love for him and this is how he repays her? this is how he appreciate all the sacrifice she made for him? I wish i know the answers for all those questions so that i can comfort her. He is supposed to be her guide, after what he has turned her into, but he left her instead!
i've known her since i was in primary school. being a few years older than i, i admire her very much. i had a great respect for her because she is one of the rare people who is good in everything she do. oh, wait! let me rephrase that. She's superbly great in whatever she do! She's what you would call an all-rounder, an over-achiever. from sports, athletics to martial arts, public-speaking, music, poetry, arts, academics - she excels in everything. she is a valedictorian - i mean, she's everything! how can you not admire and have respect for a person like that?
if i were in her shoes, i would belasah the husband cukup-cukup bcos she can... jangan main-main....
so, to my dear friend, my heart goes out to you. i know i can never understand your pain, but be strong, leave everything to GOD. Maybe there's a blessing in disguise. and here's a song specially for you!
Just shout to the world, So What???!!! I'm A Rock Star!!!
Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
Na Na Na Na Na Na
Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
Na Na Na Na Na Na
I guess i just lost my husband
I don't know where he went
So i'm gonna drink my money
I'm not gonna pay his rent (Nope)
I got a brand new attitude
And i'm gonna wear it tonight
I wanna get in trouble
I wanna start a fight
Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
I wanna start a fight
Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
I wanna start a fight
So so what?
I'm still a rock star
I got my rock moves
And i don't need you
And guess what
I'm having more fun
And now that we're done
I'm gonna show you tonight
I'm alright, I'm just fine
And you're a tool
So so what?
I am a rockstar
I got my rock moves
And i don't want you tonight
Uh, check my flow, uh
The waiter just took my table
And gave to Jessica Simp- Shit!
I guess i'll go sit with drum boy
At least he'll know how to hit
What if this song's on the radio
Then somebody's gonna die
I'm gonna get in trouble
My ex will start a fight
Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
He's gonna start a fight
Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
We're all gonna get in a fight!
So so what?
I'm still a rock star
I got my rock moves
And i don't need you
And guess what
I'm having more fun
And now that we're done
I'm gonna show you tonight
I'm alright, I'm just fine
And you're a tool
So so what?
I am a rock star
I got my rock moves
And i don't want you tonight
You weren't there
You never were
You weren't all
But thats not fair
I gave you life
I gave my all
You weren't there
You let me fall
So so what?
I'm still a rock star
I got my rock moves
And i don't need you
And guess what
I'm having more fun
And now that we're done (we're done)
I'm gonna show you tonight
I'm alright(I'm alright),I'm just fine (I'm just fine)
And you're a tool
So so what?
I am a rock star
I got my rock moves
And i don't want you tonight
No No, No No
I Don't want you tonight
You weren't there
I'm gonna show you tonight
I'm alright, I'm just fine
And you're a tool
So so what?
I am a rock star
I got my rock moves
And i don't want you tonight
Ba da da da da da
Ppl said women are so complicated, so difficult to understand. I think all human beings are equally complicated.
And to my friend again, if u think i got the story wrong, do let me know, i'll kindly take this off my blog - but the song stays coz i like it.
P!nk Rocks!!
3 comments:
sometimes susah juga marriage life nie kan..one moment the husband proclaimed his love to the wife..sekali bisuk2 nya p cari perempuan lain pulak..*sigh*
palis2 saja lah husband kita tia buat kita macam tu kan..
for your friend, hope she will be strong to face her future..
It takes 2 to tango, the fault lies not only with the stealing woman but also the husband. One must question the foundations of the marriage in the first place - whether love or simply convenience. A sad sight these days isn't it?
I am not married but I think I know how it feels... my parents had a rocky marriage but we never knew about it until mum passed away last year... all these talks about infidelity and cheating husband gives me cold feet!
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